I met Michael during my medical training. We were the same age, I liked him, but I knew within minutes of meeting him that he was going to die soon. He had a ruptured appendix and AIDS.
Michael had been living in San Francisco when he was diagnosed and returned to his home town because of his illness. In those days there was no treatment for AIDS and he and his family knew that he would gradually die. The rupture of his appendix changed that timeline considerably. Because Michael was so sick I spent some time talking to his parents to prepare them for what was coming. As usual, I talked before I listened. When I finally tuned in, they told me a story that I still remember, twenty-five years later.
Michael had grown up in the church and had been very active there. He was a leader among the youth and had been highly respected by everyone. During Michael’s senior year of high school, he was prepared to graduate as the valedictorian of his class. At about that time, though, he made it public that he was homosexual.
Michael’s church had a custom of recognizing the high school graduates by calling them to stand in front of the congregation, by giving them a small gift and by praying over them. On the Sunday of this event, Michael wore his best clothes and his mother told me that he sat on the front row, expecting to be called up to give a short speech. The church leader recognized the other high school graduates but didn’t call Michael to come up before the congregation. Michael was embarrassed, hurt and soon fled to California to get away.
After speaking with his parents, I went into Michael’s ICU room and pulled the curtains. The room was large so that the patient could be easily attended from either side of the bed, it was white from floor to ceiling, and it appeared and smelled sterile.
In many ways Michael really didn’t look sick but every medical test told a bad story. I re-told Michael what the surgeons had already told him; his appendix had ruptured spilling intestinal contents into his abdomen and, with AIDS, his body had no means of fighting the infection. Then, I then took my best shot at something I had been thinking about since I met him.
“Michael,” I said calmly, “there is no human or anything on this earth that can help you. I’m sorry to say this so plainly but, in less than eight hours, you are going to die. And, although I don’t know for sure what is going to happen, I believe that you are going to stand before God who judges all people. Would you like to talk more about this or is this none of my business?”
At that, he slowly turned his head away from me and whispered to the wall, “It is none of your business.”
Five hours later he was dead. Billions of invisible life forms inside of his body killed him.
Main point: The world isn’t just old, or broken, it is cursed and people all over the world will continue to suffer until the curse is lifted.
So what: The curse will only be removed when The Church is complete. There are still over 3000 people groups with no access to the gospel. You can do something about it through prayer, through giving money, by going to the ends of the earth to make disciples, or by training and sending others–perhaps your children.
Doc, the parallel between how Michael’s church treated him and the way that the church treats certain people groups is profound. Certain people groups, like certain lifestyles, are considered “unclean” or “unsafe,” while others are not. When finally someone tries to engage the “unclean” or “unsafe” with the Gospel, because they have been ostracized and shunned, they don’t want to hear.
Oh, that each of us would model within our spheres of influence what Jesus meant when he told us to “go into ALL the world and make disciples.”
Thank you for another thought provoking blog.
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I hadn’t considered the parallel between Michael’s non-relationship with his church, and The Church’s non-relationship with some people groups of the world. I see your point. In both instances, Christ’s answer would be to reach out in love. Thanks for your great reply. It was very thought provoking, also.
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I had an elderly patient just today break into tears as she asked me why she had diabetes and no one else in her family did. What had she done to deserve this? It was actually your voice in my head (scary, huh?) that I heard when I began telling my students – who were also serving as my translators – that the answer lies in the Bible and that the earth is cursed. I felt a heavy burden for this conservative Muslim woman because my language isn’t nearly good enough to explain to her the hope offered in Jesus. We’ve got more work to do …
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Hi JD, Thanks for putting this comment out there for all to see. It helps re-iterate my point.
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Powerful.
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What speaks to me is what judgement will God place on those (Christians) who instead of showing God’s love for humanity build walls to keep those deemed unworthy from knowing God’s love .
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There is a lot of messed up stuff in this story, isn’t there? I didn’t go into it, but the boy’s mother was heart broken, as you can imagine.
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If the sinners prayer was ever sincerely prayed ….once saved always saved? Even if during life they became ensnared in Satan’s lies?
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I sure hope that is the way it works. I think this is one of those points that people have been arguing about for 2000 years. The sad part is that, even facing sure death, Michael couldn’t humble himself to even speak to God. He had been so, so wronged by the church, but it looked to me like he died having a pity party, which is one of the million ways that we humans put ME first.
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